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Getting Over the Dude

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break-up1.jpgWhat does this have to do with our business? Let me answer that question with another question - how does it not have anything to do with our business. If you meet a guy during a run of a show, even if he is not in theatre, the chances of the relationship/whatever it is working out are slim. We have many odds going against performers with the constant travel. You may be the person who wants to continue the “whatever it is” and the other may have made it more of a showmance for himself. You can communicate to the best of your ability, but the full truth may not come out until the show comes to an end. That’s when you truly know. I don’t like it. I don’t have to like it, but I do have to accept it cause there is no changing anything. It makes it no surprise when songs like “Scrubs” and “I Hate Men” are written. I don’t like jumping on that bandwagon, but when a person gets hurt/left/all the above, can you blame him/her?


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